Saturday, May 14, 2011

Competent


By Keith N Fisher

At the LDStorymakers Conference this year, I walked into the ballroom at the beginning of a session and encountered a lady who wouldn’t shake my hand.

We introduced ourselves and I told her I write women’s fiction. I don’t remember her exact words, but she looked me square in the eye and asked, “How are you qualified to write women’s fiction?”

I was perplexed. What qualifies every writer to write anything? I must admit that getting into the mind of women is dangerous, and a difficult journey. Not unlike the first moon landing, and being a man, how can I presume to be successful in this genre?

I stumbled over my answer, not knowing quite what to say. “I’m the only man in a six member critique group and I get insights from my partners?” I could’ve claimed an understanding, and I would’ve liked to claim the title of, Casanova of the Twenty-first Century Book Writing World, but I’m just a man. I think Nicholas Sparks would like to contest that claim, anyway.

I shared my dilemma with my friend, Tristi Pinkston, and she joked, “You should’ve looked her in the eye and said, I’m really a woman.”

I write stories about women, for women, in a way that men would enjoy reading it too. You see, there are differences, but basically there isn’t much separating the sexes. With a few genre specific details, all fiction is pretty much the same. Yes, there are situations women find themselves in that men wouldn’t, but women’s fiction, not romance, is a contemporary story about the struggles and joys of women characters. The secret to success is telling it with resonance to women. Sometimes, that includes romance.

My new friend made me consider the answers to many questions, and sparked a visit into my project files. I’ve written stories about men, but my very first, written twenty years ago, was about a woman who struggles to find balance between the corporate world and her desire to be a singer. A mystery unfolds along the way, and she finds answers to her life’s questions.

The second book, my first LDS market, was a coming of age story about a teenage girl. Pregnancy and a desire to find her own way, spurs a late night flight to a new life in the big city. Through a series of missteps and misplaced trust, she finds herself at the end of her rope, and discovers God.

As I said before, I’ve written male protagonists and testosterone-laden plot lines, but really, women’s fiction is what I’ve always written. So, how am I qualified? After considering many possible answers, I came up with a good response. I write women’s fiction because my characters dictate their stories to me. I am competent, if people find joy in reading them.

Good luck with your writing—see you next week.

5 comments:

Susan Gourley/Kelley said...

Lots of women write from a male perspective why can't it be the other way? Good luck with all your women speaking to you.

Taffy said...

Good post, Keith!
How is Meyers qualified to write about vampires? You could ask this question of many, many writers.

Stephanie Black said...

Wow! I'm surprised she challenged you like that. If we were all limited to writing in the point of view of our own genders, it would be a sad day for fiction.

Wendy Swore said...

"I'm really a woman."

Ha! I knew it! I always knew those grey whiskers were just a prop.

Someone finally saw through your disguise.

*wink*

No really, Keith, I think a writer makes a living by putting themselves into someone else's head. Be it a fairy or vampire...or the opposite gender. I hope she had her eyes opened just a little. We are writers. We can be anything!

Nichole Giles said...

You are qualified, because you are human. The end.

Also, you're a sensitive, kind guy who knows how to get to the heart of real matters. But I don't need to convince you, do I? I've read your stuff, and it's great.