by C. Michelle Jefferies
To do anything?
My life is always busy, seven kids, house, husband, a full time writing career and deadlines. Yeah I could be the poster child for the whole "burning your candle at both ends".
We started the summer with our six year old being lifeflighted to the local children's hospital with a skull fracture. I had emergency surgery and now chicken pox is going through our family one child at a time.
Someone commented to me this week that they hoped their kid also didn't get the chicken pox from my kid because they didn't HAVE time for a sick kid. While I blew off the comment, how was I supposed to know he was sick when he was completely spot free and not acting sick? What they said bugged me for days.
The whole HAVE time thing.
I don't have time to do anything. Time is that elusive thing that slips through my day like trying to hold water in your hand. I could spend my entire day just putting out fires that two year old's make, answering the phone, running errands etc etc etc. I'm sure you get the idea. I could spend the whole day swimming upstream. thinking I don't HAVE time.
Same goes for writing.
Do I have time to write? Of course not.
Let's think about this for a minute. The way we approach anything can have a profound impact on how we actually follow through.
While someone might not HAVE time for sick kids or writing, there's a simple answer.
I MAKE time.
Yep. I make my family, my home, my writing a priority.
I let the phone go unanswered, I get off facebook, I either turn on the computer or turn it off depending on my focus for that period of time. I let my older kids load the dishwasher and mop the kitchen floor.
I make time to write. I make time to edit, market, communicate with editors, publishers etc. I make it a priority because its important to me.
How do you make time to do those things that are important to you?
The path to wisdom is not always straight.